*cracks fingers*
OKAY!
So, for TV shows, I'd probably go with
She-Ra atm, I've just started the thing, it's on Netflix, but the two female protags are lesbians, and have been confirmed as lesbians by the showrunners.
It's a reboot of the old 80's series. Adora discovers she's a princess of power, She-Ra, and joins the resistance, led by other princesses to take down the evil army, Hoarde. Her child hood best friend, Catra ends up becoming her arch nemesis because of this.
My little blurb is kinda all over the place, I'm not good with this kind of fantasy/sci-fi thing but honestly, if this show had been around when I was a kid, I would have known I was a lesbian a lot sooner, so props to that for all the young little lesbians who will discover themselves because of this show.
Books!
Anythiiiing by Sarah Waters. Nearly all of her femlae protagonists are lesbians and her stories are both interlaced with romance, sexuality, and amazing plot devices. I finished
Fingersmith back in January and I still think about it sometimes.
Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin is a tragic love story between an Italian gay man and an American bisexual man in Paris but it's so amazingly beautiful that I didn't mind the ending. I am gonna put a spoiler in here with the ending because some people might be sensitive to what the ending actually is:
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This one is a difficult read on it's own but when I read it the second time, I fell completely in love with the story -
The Child Garden by Geoff Ryman. Ryman is a gay man himself and his main character is a lesbian, Milena, who falls in love with an outsider, but their love is destined to be tragic when things begin to go awry in Melina's world. There are a lot of sci-fi elements and tropes so if sci-fi is something you love, I highly recommend this book.
So far these are the only things I can think of atm...